Transgender Day of Remembrance
Today is Transgender Day of Remembrance, when we mark the lives and deaths of trans people who have been murdered in the past year. At least 46 trans and gender-nonconforming people were killed this year in the US, making 2021 the second year in a row to become the deadliest year on record. This is an issue not only of gender, but of race: 29 victims this year were Black, and 8 were Latinx. Two-thirds of the dead since 2013 have been Black women.
Trans people are extraordinary vulnerable in our society. Trans individuals are vastly more likely to experience addiction, to have depression or anxiety as a direct result of stigma, or to die by suicide.
We count the murdered year by year, but they are more than numbers in a grim tally. Each of these people had favorite meals, and embarrassing childhood memories, and minor, everyday superpowers. They had people who loved them and people whom they loved. They had moments of grace.
They were as alive as we, the living, and they died in violence; each death an act in a prolonged, distributed campaign of terror against the trans community. This violence is supported and enabled by anti-trans rhetoric, and by acts of transphobia not only large but small. Hate crimes do not happen in isolation: violent bigots are the children of nonviolent bigots. They grow up cradled in hate disguised as values; hate speech disguised as “just a joke.” We have a responsibility, to the murdered and to the living, to insist on a better world.